Julius explores how different communities operate similarly despite their diverse interests and activities. He dives into his experiences navigating kink, board games, non-monogamy, geek culture, and improv communities, highlighting the univers...

Julius explores the fundamental differences in how men and women communicate and the painful lack of education we receive about these differences before entering relationships.• Communication styles differ significantly between genders ...

We explore relationship anarchy's core principle that each relationship exists independently, challenging traditional hierarchies while emphasizing the importance of maintaining a healthy relationship with yourself first.• Relationship ...

Starting life on the back foot doesn't mean you're destined to stay there. This raw, vulnerable episode challenges the notion that our beginnings dictate our endings, offering a candid look at overcoming disadvantage and finding forward momentu...

Navigating the dating world as someone on the asexual spectrum comes with unique challenges that many dating platforms simply weren't designed to address. Drawing from decades of personal experience across various dating platforms, I'm pulling ...

Join us for a riveting conversation at the Kinky Kampfire as we explore the kaleidoscopic experiences of kink, alternative lifestyles, and the colorful journey of non-monogamy. In this episode, we chat with Melanie Carolyn, the dynamic host of ...

Have you ever felt the sting of rejection? In this compelling episode of The Pillowfort Sessions, we dive into the complexities of rejection—the emotional turmoil it brings and why it affects us all. Our host shares relatable experiences and st...

Ever found yourself tongue-tied when it comes to navigating the trickiest conversations in your relationship? We're tackling those moments head-on, from chatting about money woes to discussing whether or not kids are part of your future. Even w...

This episode delves into the complexities of navigating the kink community, sharing personal reflections and observations regarding social dynamics, consent, and self-awareness. With a humorous yet candid approach, we explore the intricacies of...

Is your podcasting journey crossing into the realm of taboo topics, and where do we draw the line between fantasy and reality? Join me as I recount my experiences at PodFest 2025 in Central Florida, where the buzz of conversations was as vibran...

What if stepping out of your comfort zone could lead to a whole new world of self-discovery and personal growth? Join me, Julius, as we kick off the new year with "Around the Kinky Kampfire, the Pillow Fort Sessions," a podcast episode that pro...

This episode dives deep into the shifting landscape of kinks and porn searches in 2024, revealing surprising trends and insights about global traffic and viewer preferences. From the dominance of the U.S. in traffic rankings to the rising femal...

We dive into 2024's most surprising porn search trends, exploring themes from regional favorites to unique kinks. This episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own preferences while unpacking what these trends reveal about societal view...

Ever wondered how a chilled drink might actually warm you up in the brisk Florida weather? Join me, Julius, as I kick off 2025 with a curious blend of tequila, mezcal, and energy drink in our latest Pillow Fort Session. I'm diving headfirst int...

Ever wondered what makes the BDSM community tick? Imagine stepping into a world where consent is king and every knot tells a story. This episode promises to unravel the complexities of BDSM and kink, offering listeners a candid look at challeng...

Ever wondered what truly sets the successful apart from the rest? It might not be talent, but instead the powerhouse of consistent habits. Join us as we dissect the often subconscious world of habits, challenging the notion that talent is the g...

Gather 'round the Kinky Kampfire as we explore the vibrant tapestry of alternative lifestyles with the fabulous, Shannon Elliott, by our side. Ever wondered how labels can both liberate and confine us? Shannon and I tackle this curious dynamic ...

Can you imagine transforming awkward silences and misunderstandings into meaningful conversations that deepen your relationships? In this episode of the Pillow Fort Sessions on the Around the Kinky Kampfire podcast, we're pulling back the layer...

What happens when you mix a vibrant author, a love for smutty romance, and a passion for alternative lifestyles? You get an electrifying conversation with Shannon Elliott, who's as multifaceted as they come. Shannon shares her journey into the ...

Imagine navigating the challenging labyrinth of identity in a world that often expects conformity. That's what we explore as we journey through the Cass Model, a framework that psychologist Vivian Cass crafted to illuminate the path of identity...

What if your way of expressing affection isn't hitting the mark with your loved ones? Join us here at Around the Kinky Kampfire: Pillow Fort Sessions as we navigate the intriguing world of love languages, a concept that has sparked curiosity si...

Have you ever wondered how relationships can thrive beyond the bounds of sex and romance? Join me, El Comidin, also known as Taco Knuckle or the Cuddle Gigolo or HH Julius on a fascinating journey through the landscape of asexuality and diverse...

Get tickets for next year's Smut Lovers Convention - https://smutlovers.org/home/conference/tickets/Ever wondered how smut literature intersects with BDSM, queer communities, and non-monogamy? Join me, HH Julius—your favorite host, also...

What truly distinguishes solitude from loneliness, and how can meditation help us navigate this emotional landscape? Join Julius on the latest episode of the Pillow Ford Sessions, as we explore these profound questions and delve into the world ...

Ready to challenge the norms of traditional relationships? Join us around the kinky campfire as we embark on a revolutionary journey into relationship anarchy. We'll redefine what it means to connect with others by rejecting monogamy and hierar...